From Anger To Increasing Peace
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When I was little, starting from maybe five or six years old, I used to do everything I could to avoid being diabetic. I believed that, if I pretended hard enough, diabetes would just go away. In this vein, I used to tell my dad that I no longer wanted to be diabetic. I insisted that, from that moment on, I wasn’t going to have injections or blood tests anymore. My dad always responded, in a light but matter-of-fact tone, with “Okay, then. But, just so you know, your fingers and toes will probably fall off so you’ll need to make plans for that.”
The Angry Diabetic
How angry was I? Let me count the ways… One one thousand, two one thousands…!!
There were so many things that made me angry. Of course, there were the usual culprits that I think are so common in the lives of diabetics…
- Giving the same amount of insulin three days in a row for the same meal and ending up with three completely different blood sugar readings.
- Having someone ask for the millionth time if I got diabetes because I ate too many sweets as a child (um, no... I only started solid foods less than a year before I was diagnosed!).
- Having your endocrinologist set your targets, you hit them, then they just raise the targets without saying so much as 'well done'.
- Being told off by a (usually non-diabetic) doctor for some perceived fault in your blood sugar management when you've already tried everything humanly possible to correct or improve it.
- Being told off by a (usually non-diabetic) doctor for some perceived fault in your blood sugar management when you've already tried everything humanly possible to correct or improve it.
- Having the embarrassment of a hypo in a public setting. And then the requirement to give reassurances to the witnesses who feel they went through 'so much' watching you hypo (try being unconscious instead!!).
- Asking... "Why me?"
Loss And Grief
I’ve been on a long journey since then. I have got to know the anger in me. I have sat bravely with it when it has roared out in pain. I have given it a voice when I wanted to shut it down most. I have learnt that, under the anger, there exists a gentle soul who is crying out in need. As the old adage says…

I couldn’t trust my health. I couldn’t trust that I would be well at any point in time. And I couldn’t trust how long I might live. At eleven years of age, my diabetic consultant told me that I should expect to lose one year of life for every ten years of diabetes I lived through (More recent data suggests it may be more bleak than that.) I had therefore already lost one year of my life, when I’d barely got started. A very sobering thought for someone so young. In that way, my mortality was ever-present to me in a way it wasn’t for other children. Each unconscious hypo (which were pretty common for a brittle diabetic child in the 1980s) reminded me of this lack of invincibility.
Processing The Anger
I have learnt that it’s okay to feel angry. In fact, I now believe that it is vital to feel it. I suspect that deep-seated, unfelt, unexpressed anger may contribute to the development of T1D in the first place.
It hasn’t been easy but I have now got to a place where I am truly grateful to have diabetes. It has made me an excellent mathematician (insulin-to-carb ratios, anyone?? Or, my favourite, my parents testing me on multiplication sums, like 16 x 17, to check I was back to normal after a hypo!).



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Natalie is a blogger with Type 1 Diabetes. Natalie's special gifts are questioning the status quo and being a rebel. She is using these gifts to question medical 'knowledge' and find a true cure for Type 1 Diabetes.
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